You Are Enough. Just As You Are.

I help women develop secure attachment and self-love through evidence-based nervous system healing.

Everything you need to heal is already within you—I’m just here to lead the way.

Hi, I'm Blair Nicole

I'm a self-compassion researcher + nervous system strategist with lived experience + clinical expertise.

PhD Candidate in Psychology, Former Therapist

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You need a break—but life won’t slow down. Let’s hit pause together...

Sign up for UNWIND — free guided meditations — and we’ll take a weekly mental vacation. No passport required! ✈️🧘‍♀️

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Blair Nicole is a former CEO and trauma therapist turned self-compassion researcher + nervous system strategist. She has a passion for travel and mental health, and is currently a PhD candidate in Psychology.

If you feel not good enough or insecure in relationships, you’re not broken. These are learned nervous-system patterns. I help women rewire their nervous system for self-compassion, self-trust, and secure attachment — so love feels safer and more stable, starting from within.

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