
How to Stop Thinking About Something (It’s Not About Willpower—It’s About Safety)
Wondering how to stop thinking about something? Learn why your brain won’t shut off—and how to finally find real relief without forcing it. Read more here.
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Blair Nicole is a former CEO and trauma therapist turned self-compassion coach and researcher. She has a passion for travel and mental health, and is currently a PhD candidate in Psychology.
If you find it hard to rest without guilt, feel anxious or insecure in love, or keep chasing validation from people who can’t meet you fully—you’re not alone. And you’re not incapable or flawed. You’re just ready for a new way forward.

Wondering how to stop thinking about something? Learn why your brain won’t shut off—and how to finally find real relief without forcing it. Read more here.

Your inner critic doesn’t have to run the show. Learn how to stop being so hard on yourself and rewire your brain for self-compassion today. Start here.

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